Module 3: The Aftermath & The Gossip

Unit 14: He Said, She Said

Reported Speech & Spilling the Tea

💋 The gossip never stops.

You’ve done the walk of shame, and now it’s time to debrief. But when you are repeating the scandalous promises your date made to you at 2 AM, you can't just quote them directly. You need to use Reported Speech. Whether he claimed he was single, or she promised to call you, let's learn how to spill the tea with perfect grammar so no one can accuse you of chatting rubbish.

📖 Survival Glossary: Intro Edition

1. The Cheeky Dictionary: 8 Words for Liars & Gossips

Exaggerate (verb): To make a story sound much bigger, better, or worse than it really was.
Swear down (phrasal verb): A strong promise that you are telling the absolute truth.
Gaslight (verb): To manipulate someone into doubting their own memory or sanity.
Deny (verb): To refuse to admit the truth; to claim something didn't happen.
Admit (verb): To finally confess that something is true, usually reluctantly.
Stir the pot (phrase): To intentionally cause drama or arguments between other people.
Receipts (noun): Evidence or proof of a lie (usually screenshots of text messages).
Backtrack (verb): To try to take back something you previously said because you got caught.

Practice: Drag the correct vocab into the sentences!

exaggerate
swear down
gaslight
deny
admit
stir the pot
receipts
backtrack

1. If you want to prove he lied, you need to show me the .

2. Don't me; I know exactly what you said to me last night!

3. She loves to and start drama between couples at the pub.

4. He tried to kissing her, but we all saw it happen.

5. I , I didn't text my ex! I don't even have his number.

6. After I showed him the screenshots, he finally had to he was lying.

7. He promised to take me to Paris, but now he's trying to and say he meant a French restaurant.

8. You don't need to the story, the truth is scandalous enough!

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2. Grammar Mechanics: The Backshift

When we report what someone said in the past, the tense usually takes one step back in time. It’s called "backshifting." It's essential for exposing liars.

Direct Speech (The Lie) Reported Speech (The Gossip)
Present Simple
"I am single."
Past Simple
He said (that) he was single.
Present Continuous
"I am breaking up with her."
Past Continuous
He told me he was breaking up with her.
Past Simple
"I went home alone."
Past Perfect
She claimed she had gone home alone.
Will
"I will call you tomorrow."
Would
He promised he would call me the next day.

*Grammar Note: 'Said' is used on its own (He said he was tired). 'Told' must always be followed by a person (He told me he was tired).


3. Reading: Exposing the Truth

Notice how Emma and Jack shift the tenses backward to discuss the drama!

Emma: I finally confronted Dave! He tried to gaslight me!
Jack: Spill the tea immediately. What did he say?
Emma: He said he was just tired last night. He denied everything.
Jack: What a liar! He told me he was going to a massive party.
Emma: Exactly! And last week he promised he would delete Tinder. He is completely backtracking.
Jack: I have the receipts. I took screenshots of his profile this morning.
Emma: Send them to me. I'm going to ruin his life.

4. Interactive Practice: Spreading the Gossip

Exercise A: Choose Said or Told

1. She me that she wasn't looking for a relationship right now.

2. I can't believe he he had never been in love before!

Exercise B: Shift the Tense

Change the direct quote into reported speech by backshifting the verb.

1. Direct: "I am feeling sick."
Reported: He said he feeling sick.

2. Direct: "I will pay for dinner."
Reported: She promised she pay for dinner.

3. Direct: "I deleted the app."
Reported: He claimed he the app.


5. Speaking Practice: The Interrogation ☕

  1. Have you ever had to show someone the receipts because they were trying to deny something?
  2. Do you have a friend who always tries to stir the pot? What was the last rumor they spread? (Use reported speech!)
  3. When people tell stories at the pub, do they usually tell the truth, or do they exaggerate?
  4. Have you ever had someone try to gaslight you during an argument? What did they say?
  5. Roleplay: Your partner tells you a scandalous lie ("I am a secret millionaire"). Run to another student and report exactly what they said to you!

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