Module 5: Shenanigans & Showdowns

Unit 29: Kiss and Make Up

Phrasal Verbs of Resolution

💋 So, are you getting back together or not?

You had a massive argument in the middle of the pub. Drinks were thrown, dramatic ultimatums were issued, and you both stormed off. Now it’s the next day. It’s time to swallow your pride and decide if you want to fix things. To talk about apologizing, negotiating, and resolving conflict, native speakers rely heavily on Phrasal Verbs. Let’s learn how to effectively talk it over before it's too late.

📖 Survival Glossary: Intro Edition

1. The Cheeky Dictionary: 8 Phrasal Verbs for Peace

Make up (with someone): To forgive each other and end a disagreement.
Talk it over: To discuss a problem thoroughly to try and find a solution.
Work it out: To successfully resolve a problem or complicated situation.
Get back together: To restart a romantic relationship after breaking up.
Back down: To admit defeat or withdraw your demands in an argument.
Let it go: To stop being angry about something and choose to forget it.
Calm down: To stop feeling angry, upset, or excited.
Own up (to something): To admit that you did something wrong; to confess.

Practice: Drag the correct vocab into the sentences!

make up
talk it over
work it out
get back together
back down
let it go
calm down
own up

1. They broke up last month, but I heard a rumour they are going to .

2. You need to to your mistakes and apologize for being so rude.

3. It's not a big deal. You should just and stop worrying about it.

4. He is incredibly stubborn. Even when he is completely wrong, he refuses to .

5. Take a deep breath and before you send an angry text message.

6. After shouting at each other for an hour, they finally decided to hug and .

7. We have a lot of issues, but I think if we go to dinner and , we can fix this.

8. The relationship is complicated, but they really love each other, so they will .

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2. Grammar Mechanics: The Pronoun Trap

Phrasal verbs are notorious for breaking the rules. Some of them are Separable (you can split the verb and the preposition apart) and some are Inseparable (they must stay glued together).

Type The Grammar Rule Cheeky Example
Separable
(Talk over, Work out)
If the object is a pronoun (it, him, her, them), it MUST go in the middle. "We need to talk it over."
(🚨 NEVER: "talk over it")
Inseparable
(Get back together, Make up with)
The object ALWAYS goes at the very end. You cannot split these verbs. "I want to get back together with him."
(🚨 NEVER: "get back him together with")

3. Reading: The Morning After the Fight

Notice how Emma and Sophie use phrasal verbs to dissect last night's drama!

Sophie: Tell me everything. Did you two work it out?
Emma: Sort of. I had to wait for him to calm down first. He was absolutely raging.
Sophie: Did he finally own up to his lies?
Emma: Yes. He swallowed his pride and backed down. We went for a coffee to talk it over.
Sophie: Are you going to get back together?
Emma: I don't know. He wants to make up, but I don't know if I can just let it go so easily.

4. Interactive Practice: Mending the Mess

Exercise A: The Pronoun Trap

1. Which sentence is grammatically CORRECT?

2. Which sentence is grammatically CORRECT?

Exercise B: Complete the Phrasal Verb

Type the missing preposition to complete the resolution.

1. He finally admitted he was wrong and owned to his mistakes.

2. I missed her too much, so we decided to get together.


5. Speaking Practice: Spilling the Tea ☕

  1. Are you usually the first person to back down in an argument, or are you too stubborn?
  2. Do you think it's a good idea for couples to get back together after a breakup, or is it better to move on?
  3. What is the best way to help a friend calm down when they are furious about a date?
  4. If your partner betrays your trust, can you just let it go, or is it impossible to forgive?
  5. When you have a serious problem with someone, do you prefer to text them, or meet face-to-face to talk it over?

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