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ADULT THEME: B2+
March 14

Steak and Blowjob Day

Created as a satirical "male equivalent" to Valentine's Day, this unofficial holiday has sparked significant debate regarding gender equality, relationship expectations, and the role of social media in creating modern traditions.

A high-quality image of a cooked steak

Speaking Discussion

  • Do you think holidays like this are harmless fun, or do they reinforce outdated and harmful gender stereotypes?
  • Does the idea of a "reciprocal" holiday suggest that Valentine's Day is only for women? Is that a fair assessment of modern relationships?
  • Why does the internet feel the need to create "anti-holidays" or satirical alternatives to traditional celebrations?
  • Is it healthy for a relationship to have specific days dedicated to transactional intimacy, or should these things be spontaneous?
  • In your country, are gender roles in dating still quite traditional, or has the culture shifted toward total equality?

Activity 1: The Commercialisation Debate

Motion: "The creation of internet holidays is purely driven by companies trying to sell products (meat, cards, experiences) rather than genuine human connection."

Split the class. Team A argues that these days are cultural fun; Team B argues they are marketing manipulations. Use 2 key vocabulary words.

Activity 2: Rapid Fire Sentences

Complete the sentence and justify it in 20 seconds.

  • "The most unnecessary holiday in the world is..."
  • "I think men and women generally want..."
  • "Social media has made relationships more..."