Useful English Word or Phrase to Boost Your English: Punching (above your weight) (Idiom)

What does it mean?

This idiom is used to describe a person who is dating, married to, or associated with someone considered significantly more attractive or successful than themselves. The phrase comes from boxing, where a fighter competes against opponents heavier (and presumably stronger) than they are.

Is it positive or negative?

It is usually a compliment to the less attractive/successful person, suggesting they are lucky and have exceeded expectations, but it is often used with a slightly envious or judgmental tone by others.

When do you use it?

You use it in informal conversations when commenting on a person's romantic partner (or even their professional success).

Examples

Example 1: He's punching above his weight with his girlfriend.

Example 2: She knows he's punching above his weight.

Question for you

Do you think that phrase is fair or rude?

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