Question Tags for Fishing & Flirting
You’ve got your Dutch courage, and now you’re ready to deploy a chat-up line in some dodgy club in Torquay. But instead of asking a boring, direct question, native speakers love to use Question Tags. We use them to fish for compliments, confirm our suspicions, or trap someone into agreeing with us. It’s highly manipulative, isn't it?
1. Look at him with that absolute model! He is definitely .
2. Don't let him you. You deserve someone who texts you back.
3. He told me I had eyes like the ocean. It was so .
4. Be careful, I've heard he's a bit of a who never settles down.
5. I can't eat this kebab, it tastes absolutely .
Question tags are like a seesaw. If the main sentence is positive, the tag is negative. If the main sentence is negative, the tag is positive.
| Structure | Cheeky Example | Why we use it |
|---|---|---|
| (+) Sentence, (-) Tag | "You are single, aren't you?" | We are 90% sure they are single, we just want them to confirm it. |
| (-) Sentence, (+) Tag | "You don't have a boyfriend, do you?" | We really hope they don't, but we are a bit nervous. |
| 🚨 THE BIG EXCEPTION | "I am the best kisser here, aren't I?" | We NEVER say "amn't I?". It is always "aren't I?". |
Notice how Pete and Dave use tags to seek agreement!
1. You won't tell anyone we kissed,
2. I am the best wingman ever,
3. He hasn't texted you back yet,
Look at the auxiliary verb in the main sentence and flip it!
1. She is well fit, ?
2. We didn't drink that much, ?
3. You can buy the next round, ?
Use question tags to ask your language partner for their opinions on these scandalous topics.
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