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October 30th • Drama & Digital Etiquette

National Text Your Ex Day

An unofficial internet holiday that encourages (or warns against) the ultimate digital risk: reaching out to a former romantic partner. Whether it is driven by nostalgia, curiosity, or liquid courage, this day opens a massive debate on closure, relationship boundaries, and why we find it so difficult to truly let go in the age of social media.

A person holding a smartphone, representing the dilemma of texting an ex

Speaking Discussion

  • Why do you think the internet created a day dedicated to such a controversial and potentially disastrous activity?
  • In your opinion, is it ever a good idea to stay friends with an ex-partner? What are the risks and benefits?
  • How has social media (Instagram, Facebook, TikTok) made it harder to get closure after a breakup compared to the pre-internet era?
  • What is ghosting, and why has it become the primary way for people to end modern relationships or conversations?
  • Do you think nostalgia is a healthy emotion, or does it prevent us from living in the present and moving forward?
  • If you received a text from an ex-partner today, what would be your immediate reaction? Curiosity, annoyance, or something else?

Activity 1: The drunk-Text Prevention App

The Task: You are an App Developer. Design a feature that prevents people from sending regrettable texts late at night. How does it work? Does it require a math problem or a breathalyzer test?

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Activity 2: Rapid Fire Sentences

Complete the sentence and justify it in 20 seconds.

  • "The golden rule of digital dating is..."
  • "I think staying in touch with an ex is..."
  • "In my opinion, the best way to get over a breakup is..."